In a mixer jar, add 1 cup green peas, cover with the lid, and coarsely crush them using pulse mode. Keep aside.
Now, in a mixer jar, add 2 tbsp roasted peanuts, 2 tbsp sesame seeds, 2 tbsp roasted chana dal, 1 tbsp watermelon seeds (majtari seeds), and ½ cup water. Grind into a smooth paste. The white paste is ready; keep it aside.
Then, in a kadai, add 1 tbsp ghee and 2 cups chopped methi leaves. Sauté until the methi becomes slightly soft. Transfer to a plate and keep aside.
Now, in a pan, add 4 tbsp oil, 1 tsp cumin seeds, a pinch of hing, and 1 cup chopped onions. Sauté well.
Then add 1 tbsp green chilli–ginger–garlic paste and sauté.
Now add the coarsely crushed green peas and salt. Sauté until the green peas become soft.
Then add ½ tsp turmeric powder, 1 tbsp Kashmiri red chilli powder, 1 tbsp coriander powder, 1 tsp kitchen king masala, and some hot water. Sauté the masala until oil releases from the sides.
Next, add 1 cup grated tomatoes and sauté the gravy until oil releases from the sides.
Now add the ground white paste and sauté the gravy on low flame until oil releases and a danedar texture is formed.
Then add the sautéed methi leaves and mix well.
Add ½ cup hot water, mix well, cover, and cook the sabzi on low flame until oil releases from the sides.
Then add ½ tsp garam masala, 1 tsp kasoori methi, 1 tsp sugar, and 1 tsp lemon juice. Mix well.
Switch off the gas and garnish with chopped coriander leaves and 2 tbsp fried cashews.
Dhaba-style methi matar is ready. Serve hot with paratha or roti.